When Mom was waiting to be discharged from the ward during one of her earliest hospital stays, a nurse asked Mom whether she would miss her. Mom replied, “I won’t miss you, but I will remember you.”

Few people understood what she really meant with that but I knew she said that because she didn’t want to go back to the hospital and if she had said that she missed the nurses, she feared that she would return. So while she didn’t go to school, Mom learned enough English to be able to communicate, and in this case, very clearly.

This is my little tribute to a warrior, a braveheart, a comedian, and my dearest Mom.

Most Things Start With WhatsApp Messages

Start of Radio Therapy

A First Series of Hospitalizations

Valentine’s Day 2015

The Ups & Downs

“I Won’t Give Up Easily.”

Altered Mental Status

Re-admission

Chinese New Year’s Eve

Chinese New Year

Another Admission

Altered Mental Status Episode 2

Special Visitors

A Short Reprieve

“Grandma exercising to keep her spirit alive”

The Kindness of Others

Among Good Friends

The Journey

Keeping Vigil

The Garden of Eden

A New Life

The Final Days

Rest In Peace

Boon Yi’s Eulogy for Grandma

Together, Again